Be More Sensitive: Show Her Your Softer Side
If you’re wondering why anybody would need to be more sensitive, remember that women are more emotional than men. Women are more open about what they feel, what they’re afraid of, and what they expect from a relationship. Men, on the other hand, are not as open with their emotions. Some men may feel that it’ll make them less of a man the moment they begin to show their true emotions.
Tears Are Not Flowing
Some men are inhibited when it comes to crying, especially in front of women. They feel that they’ll be branded as over-sensitive. However, psychologists say that it’s not healthy to suppress what you truly feel.
It Can Be Deadly
If you don’t talk to someone about a problem that has been bugging you, it could lead to physical ailments such as headache, insomnia, ulcer, and other conditions. Studies also show that the suicide rate of men is higher compared to women, because unlike women, men don’t like talking about issues. As guys, we put a lot of pressure on ourselves and really stress ourselves out over being great providers, husbands, fathers, friends, and role models.
Show Your Softer Side
Women appreciate and even love you more if you show the softer side of you. Romance novels depict men as tough cookies, but in reality, men can also show the softer side by being more sensitive and in-touch with their self.
Try the tips below on how to show the softer side of you.
Get Upset When Necessary
It’s normal for everyone to get upset once in a while, and it’s also normal and healthy to show your woman what you truly feel. Be more open and tell her what’s bothering you, no matter how mundane the issue is. Women are very sensitive creatures and they will empathize with you. Don’t be afraid to give voice to your emotions.
Watch Her Favorite Shows
Do your best to appreciate her favorite drama shows. Avoid being critical and try to watch those shows with her. Be sensitive when it comes to saying things that you know will upset her. She’ll love you even more because she knows you’re making an effort to watch the drama shows that she enjoys watching. For all you know, you may also like and appreciate her favorite shows.
Share Your Fears
Men and women have fears. Be more sensitive by sharing what you’re afraid of with your woman. It won’t make you less of a man if you show her that you’re also fearful of something. It may be about your work, about your fear of starting a family, etc. Whatever your fears are, discuss them with her and you’ll soon realize how liberating it is to let someone know how you truly feel.
Relationships are bound to succeed if both parties are very open with their emotions. The moment you start dating, try your best to show the softer side of you by sharing your true feelings with her. There is nothing sexier than being in-touch with your feminine side.